Books
Practical books and free resources — the ideas and tools that underpin the coaching work.
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by Steve Donahue
Featured Book
A practical guide for men navigating modern dating — written specifically for those who are re-entering the dating world after 45 and want to use today's tools intelligently, not desperately.
This book gives you a clear framework for presenting yourself authentically in digital spaces, filtering for real compatibility, and avoiding the common traps that keep men stuck in cycles of disappointment.
Available on Amazon Canada · Print & Kindle editions
The Data
Men over 45 are back in the dating market in large numbers — and most of them are doing it without updated tools or strategies. The data is clear about what works and what doesn't.
| Situation | Statistic | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Men 50–64 who remarry within 10 yrs of divorce | 50% | Pew Research |
| Divorced men actively using online dating at 50+ | 48% | connectedcouples.app 2026 |
| Men who use AI tools to improve dating profiles | 31% | Dating After 50 Stats 2026 |
| Second marriages that end in divorce (vs ~50% first) | 67% | US Bureau of Labor Statistics |
| Men who cite "no clear strategy" as the problem | 74% | Psychology Today · 2025 |
| Couples who met online reporting high quality marriage | +23% | Computers in Human Behavior · 2023 |
Sources: Pew Research Center · connectedcouples.app · BLS 2024 · CHB 2023
Free Resources
Two free tools designed to give you real insight before you invest in coaching or books.
5 honest questions that reveal the real state of your relationship. Takes 3 minutes. Results are immediate and direct — no fluff.
A structured tool that helps you identify specifically where the gap is between what you want in a relationship and what you currently have.